If a play fight between you and chick escalates into a battle of wills and fists who is at fault?

She was at fault for using techniques that were not playful. They were meaningful. Therefore she was out to hurt you...in places that she knew to go for. Now, did you throw her out of anger? If so....your fault. No man has the right to show his anger to a girl. Who cares what the family thinks...this is about your relationship. Now, you and she have to make an understanding that their will be NO rough housing at all. Period. No More